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Some of the happiest kids I knew growing up had full lives and no dates.
My personal obsession with dating began around the age of twelve.
The parents were usually much more involved in the process (chaperoning early visits and approving or disapproving of potential spouse choices).
It seemed like I’d never be old enough to get married and it’s all I wanted to think about.
Adults tried to warn me that childhood is a short season and adulthood lasts forever, but I didn’t listen and didn’t care. When I think back to all of those years I wasted on pointless relationships, I have considered what I would do with all those years if I could have them back. Perhaps I would’ve played basketball on a real team instead of just in gym class.
This is not to say that you cannot have members of the opposite sex in your life, but spend time with them in groups – in fact, it is good for you to do so in order to learn to relate to members of the opposite sex.
Such experience will be helpful once you are ready to start dating (i.e., ready to consider marriage); however, the more casual dating relationships you have before getting married, the more baggage you will likely carry into your marriage.
During the forming years, when kids are learning about relationships, they are experiencing what it’s like to move around carelessly from person to person. it is all the more tempting to look for other options when the going gets tough.